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I want a baby
I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. We want to get married when i turn 18 in 2009. We really want a baby..im not sure why but we really dont wanna wait. We have tried to make ourselves believe that we dont want this yet but we really do. I already know that my parents would be supportive because i took a test that showed positive in september and i told my parents but oops it was a false positive. ANy suggestions...things i should do to prepare? 1 jessmck
7/8/2007
From experience, I will tell you that as young as you are, having a baby at 16 is foolish. Trust me, I thought so too. There are too many reasons to count. Sure having a baby you and your friends can you can ooh and ahh over is cute for a while, but babies are also expensive and time consuming. Regardless of how adult you think you are, you are still a child yourself, until you are 18. I agree that it isn't wise to wait until its too late. Atleast, for your own benefit, please wait until you can atleast vote, until you get out of school and explore your options, until you get out on your own and get all the "running" out of your system. I really hope that you will consider what I am saying. I know not everyone's situation is the same, not trying to be negative, but realistic...ask yourself this...do you have your own place? are you married? do you have a good enough job to support a child, or are you going to depend on government programs? Hopefully your parents will urge you to do the same, not encourage a child to have a child. Please think about this 2 krisj2007
8/28/2007
Im 16 and having a baby,im almost done in November i'll have my little bundle of joy and so will his dad.Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years almost and i moved in with him and his family the third day not wise but i was really happy with him.His family loves me and they are also very happy they said about time.we are getting married but not yet.We love each other alot we have are differences but we get through them.We are very happy that we're having a kid,we have everything ready for him,i had a very nice baby shower.But you have to consider if you'll be able to take the pains of pregnancy and the throwing up and the crying all the time.You also have to consider the money problem.I spent 3,000 dollars on the crib changing table and clothes diapers and lotion and bath products and stroller and car seat.Thats alot of money right there,diapers and wipes aren't cheap.They go through all that stuff in a short period of time.And you have to consider if your going to stay with your boyfriend.How long have you been with him by the way?And does your boyfriend have a good job.Will you have enough money to support you two and your baby?Theres alot of things to consider before having a baby.Im not against you having a baby but think before you do talk it out.And also think of the pain you'll have when you give birth.medicine or not you'll still have pain.so good luck on your choice. 3 reyna_baby07
10/7/2007
Baby, i know exactly what you are talking about. don't be a fool. i know its hard to explain you but love does not exist forever sometimes at this age. I'm not telling you to leave a guy or give up on your dreams. I'm telling you to think deeper and always double check what you feel at that young age. you never know what will happen tomorrow. neither your boyfriend do. live your life, be happy and you can make the better decisions later. 4 sarahfischer
7/23/2017
This is not the right time. I was married when I was 25 years old. That is the best to have a baby. This is the reason I got pregnant right after one year of my marriage. But a bad accident ruined my life. I was in the coma for 9 days. Now I have a pelvis on my back. This was terrible for me. Doctors declared me infertile. I desperately want a baby now. I am now planning for surrogacy. The life is so unpredictable. You are too young to have a baby. 5 Angelwilliam
9/12/2017
ooff 6 elementa
6/15/2018
Hi! Itís always pretty tough to know. Today itís not that serious problem as it was long ago. You have enough tools to handle. The clinics around us offer different ways. We have to love this time. This time in which weíre infertile is really unsettling. We feel broken from time to time. But thereíre many perspectives. We now have to know our opportunities. Everything depends on our readiness to take decision. You are free to choose. if youíre okay with surrogacy then thereís not hopeless cases. Youíll manage it. Everything actually costs so much. That could be a problem. We all have time to save some money. Children are priceless. We all know it. People are ready to endure much inconveniences for them. Your story is very sad. Mine isnít different. Iím also trying hard for a long time. I tried different methods. I was frustrated when I faced with failure. Nothing helped me so far. Weíre not in despair. I know for sure there must be a way out. I get inspired reading the stories by people who had succeeded. Yeah, my life is now dedicated to having a baby. Iím looking forward to finding a clinic. Thatís all for our happy future. Iím disappointed because I wanted to become a mom since I was a toddler. My mother fostered my maternal feeling. I learnt it from her own dedication. I imagined I was a mother while I was playing with doll. Who knew I would be unable to get pregnant? Itís a real disappointment. Itís like to wait for a lucky ticket for whole life. You open the shelf and see. Thereís only emptiness. My story is about such things. We have stopped considering IVF as our lucky ticket. Thatís not a problem Iíll not be carrying my baby. Iíll be happy to have a baby through surrogacy. If it happens soon Iíll be the happiest person among all. You should get a definite diagnosis. First of all, itís needed to do. Then youíll know right what to do further. In my case it doesnít helpful. Iím called infertile with unexplained reason. That is what I currently have. Itís strange, innit? We tired but it brought no result. Unfortunately, a lot of time and strength were wasted. We donít give up anyway. You also shouldnít give up. As I said thereíre many options. One of them is yours dear! 7 elementa
6/19/2018
Good afternoon honey! I hope everything is going to be all right! That was right to post here. I suppose youíll find the answer. Keep on cooperating closer with your physician. Itís sometimes the only way to know what happens to body. I could be dead now. I had a cancer. Iím so afraid of relapse. That was terrible. Such a plague occurs suddenly. You donít expect such things will attend you. I thought that was the end. In fact, that was the end for my fertility capability. I had to undergo surgery. My womb and ovaries we affected. They had to be removed. I know what is it to feel empty. Only after I lost the ability of having a baby I felt huge desire to become parent. I guess I had a large progress in that. Today we are finishing our fifth month. Our surrogate is a great one. I canít recollect the beginning. Perhaps It was in dense fog. I knew we did everything in proper way. My clinic is really an amazing place. I compared many centers in different countries. My clinic offers probably the most appropriate terms. Donít be so desperate. Continue doing in accordance with your goal. Itíll bring your result. Many clinics are joyful to meet new clients. But you have to be sure about your problem. Work on it. Here you can find much tips how to avoid different problems. You journey must be safe. Itís necessary first of all. Guess you understand it well. In my case there wasnít any options. I had to choose surrogacy. Another option was to stay childless. You really have to be diagnosed. Itíll make your journey easier. Hope itíll be helpful. My best wishes to you. I hope youíll get advanced in your journey. All will be okay! 8 Clarentz
6/19/2018
It is very good that you want a child, because nowadays girls plan to have children only after thirty or forty years. But, it is better to plan the child into adulthood. Since, your plans and outlook on life can change. In addition, you need to prepare financially and morally. You must understand that your body will change. You may be overweight, you should be ready for this. You must understand that you will have to wake up every 3-4 hours to breastfeed your baby. Your sleep may be disturbed, sometimes postpartum depression may occur after giving birth. You must understand that all your free time you will need to spend on a child at first. You will need to abandon noisy parties, long walks with friends, distant tourist trips. Therefore, you should enjoy freedom until the age of majority. Does your man already have a job or is he a student? Is he ready for the child completely? After all, men often do not understand what awaits them. Therefore, they often plan a child after 30 years. You should think well, but if you are already pregnant, then give birth, an abortion should not be done. 9 kayli
11/19/2018

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