troubles with my husband

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troubles with my husband
I read a lot of stories on this forum. Unfortunately, not every story has ended successfully, so I would like to write our successful story. Perhaps our experience will help someone from the participants. The problem was with my husband, so we could not conceive a child. My husband was born with a condition known as cryptorchidism, or testicles that did not properly descend into the scrotum. It is the most common genital abnormality in boys, affecting 30% of boys delivered prematurely and about 4% born full term. To correct the problem, he underwent three separate surgeries as a young boy. Despite the surgeries, only one of his testicles descended. Yet after the last surgery, the situation never concerned him. Everything worked fine, so he never really thought about it. But until that time he did not meet with me and did not make me an offer to marry him. We were in our late 20ís and having a family was very important to us. It was I who offered him to get a sperm count test taken. He went to a local urologist and had the test done three times. Each time his sperm count was zero. It was devastating to hear this news just a month before our wedding. His urologist had no real advice except to suggest the plan on adopting children. Adoption was out of the question for us. It took to us a long time to decide we wanted to have children, but once we decided to, we knew we wanted our own. Of course, we made an important decision that we need to go abroad. Because that's where we found the doctor who helped us. The doctor used a special technique, that is able to discover pockets of viable sperm in the testes. The sperm can then be extracted with minimally invasive procedures and used for in vitro fertilization and single sperm injection. They were able to find multiple pockets of viable sperm in his testes. They had no doubt they would be able to retrieve them so we could go through with IVF. In fact, doctor was able to retrieve several vials of sperm from him, most of which is still frozen for future use. The egg retrieval was difficult for us, but now we have a beautiful, completely healthy little son and several embryos frozen so we can have a second child when we are ready. The process for us to have a child of our own wasnít easy either, but we definitely agree it was worth the effort. Although, our friends did not support us at all. We were alone, but fortunately we found a doctor who helped us. And we hope that we will have more children. 1 kelly007
12/28/2017

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troubles with my husband