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Hi, girls! This is Selena and I reside in Houston. Well, the reason of joining this forum is to make sure that I'm choosing the right way or not...Well, I am an infertile person due to some genetical and hereditary factors as per my medical reports. It's since 3 years I'm trying to conceive and my husband has been a great support to me in this whole time. Well, now I am tired of these treatments and considering adoption to get a child. I've no other way left to complete my family. I don't think that my DH should be paying for my destiny. Well, I wish I could change it. I myself always wanted to become a mother..But, I think it isn't in my destiny. Well, I need you guys to suggest and put me out this misery. Is there anyone who can help? I'll really be grateful to you all. Thanks a lot! 1 SelenaJonas
10/5/2017
Hey girl. First of all, I'm sorry about your condition which is becoming a barrier in conceiving. I know it's really hard to TTC for that long and getting no results is even worst. I personally can mention the case of an aunt who took 7 long years after her marriage to have a baby. So, believe me you aren't alone. Lots of women, after being declared infertile, lose their hopes. But, the fact is how can one change nature's course right? I feel you and I know what motherhood is for women like you and many others. The infertility conditions are on the go and it feels really bad to see people suffering and desperately wanting this blessing. I hope with advancement in medical science, we manage to get rid of this unpleasant condition ASAP. Many new ways are now made and many people have had success via it. Adoption, in my POV, is a quick decision to make. Try counselling this with your DH. He is the best to guide you and will help in decision making. Will you be able to treat the adopted one just the way a mother loves her own child? I'm not trying to scare you or bring negativity to you, but all I want you is to make a right step forward. I don't wish you to face disappointment afterwards. Well, best wishes for you dear. Just keep one thing stuck in your mind, it's not possible to mend nature's decisions but it's always possible to keep your hopes high! <3 Lots of love sister. 2 Miley123
10/5/2017
Thanks a lot, Hun. Your response is very supportive and it's really comfortable to know that you care. I know, adoption is really a big step moving forward. I know it's not easy to have someone's else baby. I am discussing things with my husband. I really hope that things will work out for us. I'll keep you update with any new thing regarding this issue. Bless ya! Stay connected :')))) 3 SelenaJonas
10/5/2017
Hey jackie! First of Iam really sorry go hear about about whst you are going through. I know how miserable you might be. Motherhood is not just an ordinary wish. Every woman in the universe has dreamed of it including me. Infertilty issue these days has become very common. The primary reason is people usually ignore the medical symptoms they encounter. Like I mean why dont you guys just get yourself checked in the first place? Why do you always wait for the water to rise up till the head? An early diagnosis is the key to postive treatments. Ever since I became a doctor I always suggested my patients to immidiately report as soon as they notice the first sign and symptom. Infertility in todays era comes along with multiple treatments. You can go for IVF, FET, ICP and lot more. Just relax and concentrate on your diet. Eat healthy and feel healthy. Never stress yourself. Good luck and best wishes. 4 Ashbrown
10/6/2017
Hello Salena! I am really sorry to hear about your problem. This is the worst situation a women gets to encounter. In such phase, support of your loved ones is really very important and I am glad that you are getting that support from your husband. You should not let yourself down in difficult situations and face them bravely. I hope that the problems will end for you one day. Actually, I also have a problem. I have a heart disease due to which I cannot become a mother. Yeah it is really depressing and stressful for me as well. My doctors have advised me to not have a baby until and unless I get cured from this disease. The reason behind this advice is that if I get pregnant I can put me and my babyís life at stake. I have asked my husband several times that we should try it at once and he continuously refuses do to let it happen. He says that my life is the most important thing for him at the moment. I am having a proper treatment and a test routine to know the progress for if my condition is getting better or not. I have been suffering with a lot of weakness due to the treatment. It strange that I was born with this thing and I came to know about it now. I am also thinking about the option of adaptation but my husband doesnít seem much interested. He thinks that a great responsibility and we should first wait for your disease to get cured, if possible. He also loves me a lot. I find your post really supportive as you are also thinking for adaptation. Kindly tell me if you do so. I will appreciate that. Stay healthy and happy. 5 Jasmine.Flower
10/7/2017
Hello Miley! After reading your comment I think I have got what I needed on through this forum. It is the love, care and support you have shown to all the women with different sort of problems. It would make every women feel really relaxed and happy after reading this as they will know that there are women with whom one can share their problems and feelings. I was thinking to leave the forum before I read your comment. It made me stay. Because I also cherish the feeling of becoming a mother. In my case it is the heart disease which tops me to have my own babies. But what can one do. I was really depressed earlier but now I feel confident I hope for the best. Keep on sharing your love and care. Stay blessed. 6 Jasmine.Flower
10/7/2017
Hello there! I am Isabel, and my age is 41. I am experiencing the same issue from yours. I neglected to consider a child since long. At 30 years old I got separated out of the blue and at 38, I got a moment a separate letter from my second spouse. Amid this time, I was never genuine about developing my family. Right now, I am with my third spouse who is considerably more minding than the other two. As of late, I was analyzed to convey ovarian malignancy for which I needed to expel my ovaries. I and my significant other need to have an infant to turn our lives towards advancement. To absolute extraordinary dissatisfaction, I am to a high degree powerless to complete this by in any case. Nobody can consider how terrible it is the point at which you know you can't recuperate from this disease. My better half adores me so much and does not need me to get a weight. He says that he has a profound inclination to get his youngster yet he can't hazard my life. Nobody knows how most noticeably bad it feels when you can't satisfy the desires of your adored one. It's challenging to acknowledge that I can't consider ever. I wish I would be genuinely when I was youthful! 7 Isabel
10/7/2017
Nature behaves ironically. Things that meant to be obvious for every woman are not pretty obvious in some cases. Anxiety and depression of fertility is real than anything else in this entire world. Feeling low and down are the epitomes of depression. But halting your precious self in such a soul reckoning stage is lethal. My husband rescued me when I almost fell apart after infertility news. Do not lose hope at any cost talk with your husband and deal with the situation patiently. 8 emma spencer
10/7/2017
hey, we all are here to benefit from each other's support system. Hope you get some good advice, we all need a platform to discuss our feelings and seek help emotionally. We don't want to share our fears and tears with our families. Like many women I also imagined my life after motherhood, but I never thought I will be lacking this precious period of my life. I am also an infertile person. Yes you heard it right, I never imagined my life would be so vacant and would be so glum. Few years back I had an accident and the doctors had to do Hysterectomy procedure at that time in emergency situation. My Life turned upside down with it. I was told that I can never conceive and I'm infertile. It was a huge trauma for me. I lost all hopes. Somebody suggested us that we can go for adoption, but I have a neighbour who adopted a baby girl one year back, but I do not find the bonding of the family with that girl strong enough. I fear that if I am unable to be a good mother to the adopted child, people will raise their fingers on me. I just do not know if adoption is the only way. 9 cathy87
10/7/2017
Hello, Selena, I was reading about infertility a few days back. I came to know that almost 10% of women in America are facing infertility issues. I was wondering why we are not a part of remaining 90% of the population who are fertile. I am a fertile woman but I cannot give birth to a baby because my heart does not work fine. There are issues with the valves of my heart. The valve is unable to close properly. As a result, part of blood flows in a backward direction. My doctor has advised me to not to try for a baby as it could risk my life. I may be able to conceive if my ailment is treated. My dear, I can feel your pain because it is similar to mine. It broke me every time when I think that I cannot become a mother. Being a mother is one of the most important parts and special relationship of a woman's life. It is upsetting how most of us cannot enjoy motherhood due to different diseases and infertility issues. I wish we all become healthy so that we can give birth to babies and can enjoy motherhood. Let's not lose hope and try our best. 10 adney
10/8/2017
Hi there Selena. Not only do we have the same names, we have the same issue as well; infertility. You have every right to feel this way. Its natural. However, you must not sit back and weep like this. You must not lose hope. I still go to various clinics despite it being 14 years since I discovered I was infertile. I suggest you do the same. Is there a possibility that your condition is treatable? Scientists are working wonders in the field of genetics and medicine. I am sure you might find a cure for yourself in the future. And if you don't want to wait then don't. Adopt a child. Then if a cure comes up, you can always have one of your own in the future. I know all this sounds overwhelming. Hence, I would suggest you to make a list. A list of all these things and how you intend to execute them in order. This organization of tasks really helps to clear your mind. 11 Selina Dylan
10/8/2017
Hey jackie! First of Iam really sorry go hear about about whst you are going through. I know how miserable you might be. Motherhood is not just an ordinary wish. Every woman in the universe has dreamed of it including me. Infertilty issue these days has become very common. The primary reason is people usually ignore the medical symptoms they encounter. Like I mean why dont you guys just get yourself checked in the first place? Why do you always wait for the water to rise up till the head? An early diagnosis is the key to postive treatments. Ever since I became a doctor I always suggested my patients to immidiately report as soon as they notice the first sign and symptom. Infertility in todays era comes along with multiple treatments. You can go for IVF, FET, ICP and lot more. Just relax and concentrate on your diet. Eat healthy and feel healthy. Never stress yourself. Good luck and best wishes. 12 Ashbrown
10/8/2017
Surrogacy is one option you might want to explore. All you need is to discover just how the process works If youíve just found out you could be infertile, youíll likely feel the path to motherhood just took an increasingly steep turn. But donít despair there are plenty of other ways to become a mum, including using a surrogate. Itís time to get clued up on a very modern way of having a babyÖ 13 Neha5
10/12/2017
Hi there, I am so sorry for whatever that you are going through. There are many people out there who have been undergoing the same problem. others even having been looking for children for decades. Infertility is one of the couples problems that tends to be hard to discuss. I am glad that you came out with it in the open. unlike the olden days, these dats dealing with infertility was made cheaper. first, you have to realize which problem you are facing. Is it weak uterus? fibroids or other causes. After being examined by a doctor you will be certain about it. When you realize your problem you are one step ahead of finding the solution. With all these technologies I am sure there will be help for you outside there. You either decide to opt for IVF or another type of surrogacy. When settling down for any decision be sure you are well informed about it. You can look for a clinic with a high success rate like biotex. I have seen many people in the same shoes as you. Majority of them passed the test of time and became victorious. I am wishing you all the best and don't give up. 14 Noreen
10/18/2017
I understand your dilemma. Choosing the right clinic is one of the most important decisions to make. The right decision can help make the journey so much easier. With so many options available, it is easy to get scammed. Many clinics have little experience in the field or employ incompetent doctors. I hope this time you will have better luck. Looking forward to your future updates. 15 kagirelle
10/31/2017
"Hi Selena I know what you are going through as I have been through the same. There is no need for you to be hopeless because if the treatments are not working out, you can still have your own child through surrogacy, without getting pregnant. Give surrogacy a try. It gives 100% positive results and it has totally changed my life. I have two baby boys now because of this. If you want, I can give you further information about the process and guide you through it. " 16 RohmaQ
11/20/2017
I am so sorry for whatever that you are going through. There are many people out there who have been undergoing the same problem. others even having been looking for children for decades. Infertility is one of the couples problems that tends to be hard to discuss. I am glad that you came out with it in the open. unlike the olden days, these days dealing with infertility was made cheaper. first, you have to realize which problem you are facing. Is it weak uterus? fibroids or other causes. After being examined by a doctor you will be certain about it. When you realize your problem you are one step ahead of finding the solution. With all these technologies I am sure there will be help for you outside there. You either decide to opt for IVF or another type of surrogacy. When settling down for any decision be sure you are well informed about it. You can look for a clinic with a high success rate like biotex. You can follow this link on their video log to know more about the clinic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9aRuufzCYA. I have seen many people in the same shoes as you. Majority of them passed the test of time and became victorious. 17 Tifanny
12/5/2017
Hello, Selena. Donít give up. I know that you feel desperate but you have to stay positive. There are a lot of ways for you to change your life. Do you know the reason of your infertility? You have to consult the fertility specialist to figure it out. Even if you hear bad news, donít give up. Adoption is also a great idea. But at first try to find out if your eggs are still valid. If they are, you can go for surrogacy. A lot of infertile women enter surrogacy programs nowadays. Because they really work. My boys were born by the surrogate. Thatís why I know what I am talking about. After long years of ttc I agreed to try this modern service. I was pretty scared. I couldnít imagine that an outside woman would carry my baby. But I desperately didnít want to adopt. Thatís why I agreed. Doctors from our clinic were doing their best to help us. They helped us a lot. We didnít have to do anything on our own. They have chosen the surrogate for us. They helped us with the examinations. The service was on the highest level. As the clinic is located in Ukraine, we had to move there for a while. It wasnít a problem because they gave us a great apartment. They were taking a good care of our surrogate. We met her several times. She looked pretty happy and healthy. Iím glad that we did it. 18 luckymy
12/10/2017
Hi there. I know that you feel frustrated but you should have a clear mind. Not everything is lost for you. A lot of infertile women use the help of the surrogates to give birth. It is pretty safe service nowadays. After long years of useless ttc my husband and me decided to try the surrogacy. It was our last chance to become parents. So, we couldnít miss it. As girls above said, we had to find the reproduction center to help us. We couldnít do it alone. I wanted to do everything in the right way. After all the examinations we were allowed to go home. Our doctor called us in 4 weeks. They have chosen the surrogate for us. After the embryo transfer we also had to wait for 3 weeks. And it happened! She got pregnant. I couldnít believe it was happening to me. It was like a dream. We brought our baby home in 2 weeks after the delivery. At first it was very hard. I didnít know what to do to make him calm down. But I got used. Now I feel like Iím the happiest woman ever. My husband spends a lot of time with us. He often takes us for a walk. I really appreciate him for his help. So, I highly recommend you to talk to your doctor. Iím sure he will help you to find the most appropriate solutions. You still have a chance to become a parent. I wish you good luck, dear. 19 amazingbear
12/12/2017

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