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Hey all, I am Lola,33 years old and my dream of having birth to a baby became a nightmare.I am married for 3 years and I couldn't conceive.At first, we thought it was due to many reasons, stress most of all but after visiting several doctors, the answer is one: I suffer from POF.My personal doctor suggested to lose some weight and take fertility drugs but he insisted that an assistance in a fertility clinic would be the best solution if I want to have a baby.What would you recommend?I am so confused and I don't know what is best for me. 1 lberkley
7/31/2017
Hi to you. I hope you're having a nice day. I wish this nightmare ends as soon as possible. Well now, as someone who deals with infertility for a while... I know how you feel. I know that nightmare isn't enough to describe how bad you feel. Anyway do not worry toomuch. At least try to. THe thing is, stuff will get better. As of now, do whatever your doctor tells you. Losing weight sounds great. Like you need to do that anyhow. Also try to be healthy in general! Start working out, change your diet and stuff like that. If you have to go through assisted pregnancy so be it. Try finding a clinic and you'll see what happens next! Wish you all the luck in the world. 2 toddlerlover
8/4/2017
Hey Lola, First of all, I'm very sorry that you had to go through this. I hope you're feeling better now. If the doctor has diagnosed your problem, then that's a good thing. I personally know of many couples who are not able to conceive but are also unable to figure out the reasons. If you're not very happy with what your current doctor has suggested, I think you should consult a couple more specialists. I'm sure you'll find someone who truly understands you and suggests a treatment that you're completely happy with. Wish you the best and keep us posted about what you and your husband decided to do. 3 walterjohnson
8/9/2017
Good Afternoon everyone, Wish you all a very good day, ahead. I hope Lola gets out of her daydream nightmare real soon. Well, considering your condition, Lola, your post says you have an illness, namely, POF which is ovary failure. Now if we look into the reasons for this disease, it is a genetic disorder, and very rarely an autoimmune disorder. This disease can cause ovarian failure much before you even hit the age of 40. In order to treat this, you must visit a specialist in the same who might prescribe you estrogen boosting hormonal medicines. If you continue with your medication as prescribed by the doctor, you might be able to conceive a child real soon. You can do several home remedies at home, too. Plan a diet rich in Estrogen and eat healthy throughout the duration of your pregnancy and the medication. I suggest you go with what your doctor has suggested and taken a little extra care by yourself and taking estrogen rich supplements. I would like to add a few points, though. Please make sure to eat estrogen throughout your pregnancy or else it can be dangerous for the baby. Estrogen is primarily responsible for holding fetus to the wall of the ovary. Plan out a balance of diet and the medications to maintain the same and follow it religiously. Rest is all good! I hope you are pregnant real soon. Take care. 4 aandycooper
8/16/2017
I can understand your feelings. You are so brave that you are facing a lot. I am in the same situation as yours. I have married ten years ago. I was not conceiving and when we visited the doctor. They told me that I am infertile. I was so depressed and disappointed. I want to be a mother desperately. When my husband came to know about the matter he left me. This situation was more depressing for me. I know the baby is very important for a couple. Now I and my bf want to start a new family. He knows about my situation. Sometimes I think I am lucky that I can handle the depression so well. 5 Emyjane
8/25/2017
Hello there! I hope you're doing good enough. I understand your situation. Infertility is a problem no one wants. I think you should follow what the doctor says. Dieting is a good thing. In addition you can take supplements or vitamin supplements. Do also exercise regularly. Always consult your doctor. That way you will know the right steps for yourself. My sister has the same problem with you. Currently she is also struggling to get a child. A series of treatments she willingly did. When doctor said she is infertile, she is very sad, because she really wants a girl. Many couples experience infertile problems, so they care. When they follow it properly there is a successful child. So continue your treatment at the doctor. May you soon get a cute baby. Keep the spirit. 6 elka30
9/12/2017
Hello Lola, I wish you are fine. Donít be tense or sad. I can feel you very well. Because I was like you 5 years ago. I visit a doctor. He recommended many things that can help me. Diet and some fertility drugs were the main parts of my treatment course. Getting out of the stress is very important. Donít be confused. Just follow the instructions everything will be okay. 7 amaya
9/14/2017
Hello Lola, I wish you are fine. Donít be tense or sad. I can feel you very well. Because I was like you 5 years ago. I visit a doctor. He recommended many things that can help me. Diet and some fertility drugs were the main parts of my treatment course. Getting out of the stress is very important. Donít be confused. Just follow the instructions everything will be okay. 7 amaya
9/14/2017
Hello Lola. I'm sorry about your condition. Infertility has become everyone's monster. No one wants to have infertility. You do not stress dear. Stress is not good for you. Stress can affect hormone production. Dieting is a good choice. Start to adjust your diet. Pay attention to what you eat. Do also regular exercise. Following what the doctor says is a good thing. Doctors know more about your condition. Try to find information about a good clinic. Clinic who has experienced problems of infertility. Keep the spirit dear. Wish all the best for you. 8 vozay10
9/26/2017
Hello there. How are you? I am so remorseful to read about your situation. I had faced the same challenge several years ago. I had being diagnosed PCOS and was notified that I cannot conceive naturally. If I constantly did try; I can cause stern complications which can in-conclusion up in life-threatening circumstances. We had been suggested about a clinic ďBioTexComĒ. They are paramount. They had most excellent medical equipment's, finest and qualified staff, very educated and they know the whole lot connected with fertility issues and their solutions. I am giving out a link as well. You can have a glance at it as well. Perhaps they might change your fate as well, like they changed mine. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA. Nancy!! 9 Nancy
1/22/2018
You should definitely visit the fertility clinic. This is the first thing a woman should do while ttc. After 3 years of useless ttc you might need some medical treatment. Anyway, you should take all the necessary fertility tests to figure out why you failed. By the way, both your husband and you should be examined. Who knows, he can also be infertile. So called Male infertility is getting very popular today. Men just don't want to accept this fact. They always think that they are completely healthy. Women keep being treated without any result. This is really sad. Men are so stubborn. In case if you are fine, you can try to get pregnant through the IVF. My friend used to go through 3 IVF attempts last year. She got pregnant after the third try. So, it works but you have to be patient. The fertility specialist will offer you the best solution to your type of infertility. A lot of infertile couples adopt or enter the surrogacy programs. Most men don't want to adopt. They all dream to have their biological babies. The same has happened to my husband and me. That's why our baby boys were born by the surrogate. There's lot of info about surrogacy on the web. You should choose the reproduction center and they will help you to do everything in the right way. As for me, this is the fastest and the safest way to get a baby even being infertile. There are a lot of reproduction centers, which offer surrogacy. Unfortunately, it is still illegal in most countries. For example, surrogacy is legal in Ukraine. Prices there are pretty affordable. You can contact their reproduction centers and they will answer your questions. Good luck! 10 luckymy
5/17/2018
Oh, Girl! Donít be so sad. Here you can find women who suffer from it as well. Itís not the best diagnosis you could get. Actually infertility canít be called as something particularly good. Sorry for that circus. I really feel for your condition. I donít ask you how you are doing. Guess, itís quite tough for the first time. Try to endure all these hard thoughts. I know POF affects approximately 1% of the female population. Some of them can get pregnant without fertility treatment. Itís a little but hope any way. Thus continue trying hard. Then donít forget to undergo additional examinations. Maybe the doctor will find some way out. good luck and baby dust honey! 11 toytoo
5/18/2018
Hello, you should not despair, reproductive medicine is very well developed now. Therefore, you should look for a good reproductive center in your country or abroad. I think that experienced doctors can help you. But, only you should not be mistaken with the choice of the clinic. Otherwise, you just spend money and time in vain. You must understand that you are still a very young girl. And you still have chances to solve this problem. 12 lilis
5/31/2018
lilis, basicall you're right and technologies we have now are far from imaginable. taking into account OP's issue, I wouldn't rely on her age. Her body thinks it's time for menopause so it's difficult to reassure it. One can have hormone therapy and get periods back, but it won't restore ovarian function. As for me, the best solution is IVF but not with your eggs, as it's impossible but with donor ones. I am going through this now and can tell you for sure it's not easy. Hell! It's damn tough and you have to be ready for everything within treatment. I had 2 cycles and they all failed. Obvs I'm starting to lose hope but I know there is still a chance. Hope this helps 13 marse
5/31/2018

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