awesome journey which must happen long ago!

awesome journey which must happen long ago!

Login:
Password:
You are here:Baby-Names-And-Stuff.com > Pregnancy > Display Topic

You are not Logged On. To post messages please Logon.
  Post # Posted By
awesome journey which must happen long ago!
Hi everybody here! I love my life! I call you to fall in love with your life again. Itís unbelievable. Last time I hadn't spare time. I didnít visit forums for so long. My time was dedicated to doing something really important. I have my fertility journey progressed. At last we did it. We started with one gorgeous clinic. Itís too hard to recite gradually and clear. Iím too excited. My fingers are crossed for everyone but they are trembling. My surrogate has crossed the border of the first trimester. Itís the most dangerous stage of pregnancy. Now itís rather easy to take breath. Sheís incredible. Such a great one! She carries my sweet baby! I appreciate it as sacred deed. I spoiled loads of opportunities. I wasted my time doing IVFs. I looked for egg donor who can become our savior. My life seemed as one big trouble. I was afraid it could lead my family to divorce. My husband confirmed he is committed guy! After long useless investigation we chose Ukraine. This country is the most frequently mentioned on forums. You can hear it everywhere. Additionally, I was already there. It was likely familiar to me. Iím completely pleased with my journey this time. Iím proud of myself and my husband. Nothing could stop us this time. We were over encouraged! Actually such big changes came after perhaps the toughest period. Depression was my best friend. I didnít know how to get out of it. In fact itís hardly called depression. I guess frustration is more appropriate word for my condition. Anyway I left it behind. My clinic provided high quality donor and surrogate. I obviously canít evaluate these things but it made me sure. I didnít see my surrogate yet. Hopefully this meeting will occur in few weeks. I hope so but donít know what expects for us. This is the part of my big events! Love you! 1 toytoo
5/16/2018
Hey! My congratulations! Sincerely dear! I guess you deserved to experience this already long ago! We are all happy for you. It was definitely the most risky period of pregnancy. Majority bad things happen exactly during it. Only the best wishes and all you need! Thatís really great! How do you feel? What a weird silly question! Iím also excited. Such happy things let us be happy as well. If someone asks me where I seek inspiration Iíll answer in such stories. Iím happy when kind people are happy too. Perhaps itís my small hobby. Why did you find Ukraine good? What has made you choice? I know how many people now visit this country. Some of them are in love with this land, the others are just glad of having treatment there without rapture. In any case they find something attracting them to it. I respect their choice. How was it to choose surrogacy? Was it hard for you to accept that? I believe you are such a brave one. Thus thereíll not be a problem for you to succeed. Some things actually donít depend on us. Itís disappointing but we survive. Thank you for your post. It may inspire many of us. Especially for those who just want to start. We should appreciate you found time to share. 2 Rozental
5/16/2018
Why did we choose Ukraine? We simply relied on opinions. I was amazed with number of positive reviews. Sometime people warn us to not trust writing. I donít obey angry statements. I used to trust people. It leads us to good especially when they are right. Itís not boring you can see how many ones write about Ukaine. You can find different things. Itís up to you which opinion is closer to your view. There wasnít possibility to use option in the USA. Honestly, Iíd not like to use it. I totally feel satisfied with my current choice. Perhaps the fine order of things helped us to fix the climate within our family. We are in love again. Today Ukraine is more familiar for me than US. I know the way they used to work. I like how they treat clients. Ukrainians are more emotional than clerks of US. Sometimes seems they are keen not only to earn some cash. Something huge perhaps as huge as idea guides them in work. I can exaggerate donít pay much attention. Iíve got amazing mood to chat. Why did we choose itÖ because they provide with everything necessary. When you take part in local surrogacy program youíll get a car with a driver, your apartment with housekeeper in it, food-rest-whatever, medical examinations. This list can be continued. You pay for that only on general terms. The contract includes all and covers these expenses. Rather simple system isnít it? I like it too. 3 toytoo
5/16/2018
As for my hesitation before surrogacy it was challenging indeed. I didnít expect what a controversial matter it is. It brought muсh head ache. We had some disputes with relatives. It wasnít a real problem but anyway. What the everyone decides to announce his point of view, It doesnít bother him whether this hurts someone or not. We said the decision was taken. Wait for little gifts from Ukraine. I guess that awful pressure they maintained became a trigger for us. Thanks that trigger we got started. Now Iím completely proud of our readiness. Actually as everyone I had lots of questions. Who will carry my sweetheart? How can I allow this? Oh, god! Long ago I already accepted that someone younger and more capable than me would donate an egg for me. It wasnít also easy to take, however I defeated my egoism. Itís often when selfishness becomes a barrier. It interferes to go on. We should be harder than these blocks. I was pressed by thought of surrogacy. What will be my own contribution? Someone gives egg, another one gives belly. I just give some money for that art. To be honest I even donít pay. My precious husband does it instead of me. We live in a beautiful place. Thereíre many mountain landscapes. Perhaps this view was my calm helper. I subscribed one interesting public on internet. It taught me how to meditate. I left our house spending time in meditation surrounded by amazing landscapes. After I harmonized my inner beasts we were ready to begin. 4 toytoo
5/16/2018
Unbelievably! Itís true success. You have started itís more than win. Iím very glad for you. Hi firstly! I know you we were chatting perhaps more than 6 months ago. It might be even more. I know you looked for result using DE IVF in past. Your history of treatment fascinates. Itís great by its extant. But itís better for everyone to not repeat it. Thank for sharing toytoo. You make our world brighter with your positive news. You passed your trimester! Huge congratulations! This is the period worth dread, Many stories started well finished within the first trimester. I hope youíll be advancing properly according to wellness. My best wishes and expectations! After all you decided to be with Ukraine. Itís praiseworthy I think. You are such a stubborn one. Such people always get what is theirs. Itís perfect you like this country, its citizens. All must be fine. What about surrogate? When will you meet your lady? It must be a thrilling meeting. And additionally one question on donor. What was it a process of choosing? I mean selection. How it works in your clinic? 5 Gallas
5/18/2018
Yup, half year, maybe even more. I remember my disposition since our last conversation. Now Iím in totally different circumstances. We perchance love this life because you never know how it gonna turn straight away. Iím hooded by this moment. I experience the most serious event in my biography. Should I be happy? Yes, but not so early. I feel amazing feeling. Thatís now enough for me. I have to apply for donorís material. I accepted that injustice long ago. Today I think of it easily. It doesnít matter in real. Iíll give my babies good manners and education. My presence at most crucial periods of their life will replace my absence in fertilization. Itís such a cold sapless mechanics. Iím going to give my warmth. I know they actually will appreciate it. For me itíll be the best reward. Donít you think so? Iíll meet my surrogate on skype. It was promised to us. Itís lovely I think. The conversation will be held by interpreter. I like that idea. Weíll see her in person perhaps when we are there again. Itíll great idea to invite her to us. But it remains just an idea. I donít think flight will be good for her. As for that I am not nervous. Sheís under care and control. It helps me to calm down. And it definitely should be thrilling and exciting. How was my selection? If you ask about the surrogate, the answer is in no way. This selectionís conducted by doctor. As for donor it was pleasant activity. Iím describing. You got assess. Itís the key to their vast base. That base consists of a great number of profiles. Each profile conceals a woman. She presents her interview with subtitles. Also you see her stand. You can roll her 3G picture around. You see additional information as well. You choose few of them. It can be three or four. We decided on two girls. Then doctor check with staff which girl is ready to get stimulated. Here we go! This way you have a donor. They look very well. Most of them are real beauty. In fact there are many beautiful girls in Ukraine. Itís local treasure. I guess itís quite better to have resources of pretty girls than a lake of oil outyards. Iím satisfied so far. I suppose nothing has to change cardinally. I wish myself good luck and thank you very much for asking! 6 toytoo
5/18/2018
Hello girls, my friends recently visited one of the Ukrainian clinics for an initial consultation. Now they have a very good opinion about this clinic. They were interested in the issue of surrogacy. You know, they chose the clinic for a very long time. Initially, they assumed that it was easy enough. But it turned out that decent clinics that specialize in surrogacy are very few in the world. Of course, they could choose the most expensive American clinic ... But this is not an indicator of the success of this case. They searched for clinics, which have a high rating and reasonable prices. And also it was important for them that the clinic had a great experience in this field. For them, this is perhaps the most significant aspect. My friends are a married couple. They really want a child. They had unsuccessful IVF. They even made a decision to live childfree. But a few years later, they realized that this lifestyle is not for them. They are more than thirty years old. My friend is 36 years old, and his wife is 39 years old, she will soon be 40 years old. But, the doctors gave them hope that surrogacy could be given to them the happiness of being parents, the happiness of motherhood. I so hope that they will succeed. They were promised to pick up a good surrogate mother in a short time. They are going to pay a VIP package. Therefore, the surrogate mother should be selected for 1.5-2 months. It's very fast. The cost is quite satisfactory and suitable for them. They were also offered to choose a Standard package, but there time waiting is longer. Therefore, they decided to stop their choice on a VIP package. Although, the standard package is a bit cheaper. Therefore, they also had good impressions from visiting the Ukrainian clinic. By the way, in the clinic in which they were very many foreign patients. But, there is no language barrier, and this is a huge advantage. In general, the quality of medical services (regarding the reproductive sphere) in Ukraine is quite good. Although, many people thought quite differently earlier. 7 lilis
5/31/2018
hi toytoo! I've just came across your story and want to say a few words. It's inspiring indeed. I can read between the lines that your journey was tough enough. I believe this is the reaason you are that happy now. I'm not doing surrogacy and have no personal experience but I read stories of women who are in the same boat with you and you know what? I can't remember them being that happy and shining because they do not let themselves to be overwhelmed with unlimited happiness you experience now. I don't know you but I am very happy that you are going to get what you were looking for. This makes me think something good is waiting for me too. Fingers crossed my next cycle will be successful. P.S. cycling in Ukraine as well 8 marse
5/31/2018
Hey! A real happiness is coming! I canít express my solidarity. I feel great emotion regarding your huge progress. Several years ago I wasnít aware of surrogacy. It was something strange from the world of medicine. Moreover, it seemed like a suspicious process. Iíd never imagine I am now considering it. The way your clinic works with clients is brilliant. Iíd love to describe my facility with such gorgeous words. I see your gratitude. Itís rather strange that you hadnít seen your surrogate. I guessed the program begins with that meeting. Perhaps Iím just a dabbler. Iíll find out more in the process. I canít wait for more. Itís time to begin. Probably I just canít realize that patience is necessary thing. The endless waiting looks like unavoidable thing of journey. I had experience of fertility treatment. I will not mention my crazy IUI. I was so confident my own history wouldnít get prolonged. When I was ready to undergo my first IVF my confidence was even bigger. I doubt in forecasting. My husband was my main inspirer. Unfortunately, the very first try was failed. I was asked didnít you ever get pregnant? Itís like itís so easy to order a pregnancy. No, I wasnít pregnant. Adding my mad desire to have a baby to it I was really exhausted. I think you know. You shouldnít imagine the woman trying hard in various ways. However, she stays at the same spot. Sheís angry and weaker, and weaker. I guess I understood I had got no strength for further after my 4th IVF. We are so naive. My husband and I were sitting in front of each other. We were looking face at face. We didnít say anything. The idea of our 5th cycle appeared by itself. Oh, it made us sure that time it must be special. We like found godís sign. As a result, we got nothing again. Weíve been called ĎMr. and Mrs. Shabo? Unfortunately, you missed this time. You arenít pregnant. Weíre so sorryí Goddamned! Whatís going wrong! We decided to put off the idea. Next year or next after next maybe will be for it, not now! We hardly spent 2 months without thinking of children. Yeah, we discussed this again. We decided weíd never give up. We wouldnít torture and tire my body. Weíll try surrogacy. The best option weíll find actually! Thatís why Iím interested in your journey. You told your story short. It made me feel fine absolutely. Iíd love to try. Whatís about money? I donít know maybe itís not nice to ask directly about it. So, you can give you messenger or thatís up to you. My best regards dear! Hope youíll be quickly proceeding. Keep this world updated girl! 9 elementa
6/18/2018
We are at the same bout dear. Hello! My congratulation on your milestone. Iím also in the process. As I could notice you have your journey in Ukrainian clinic. They mostly have similar programs. I mean their treatment is similar. I saw my surrogate not so long ago. I remained satisfied. Sheís a pleasant girl. She has been translated through my clinicís interpreter. It makes things easier. She has got her own children. They are twins! Boy and girl! They were born when their mother was only 18 years old. Now sheís 24. I trust her and my clinic in particular. I canít imagine a fine journey without mutual trust. They should trust me. I will respond to them. We are already in 4th month of pregnancy. Weíre doing fine. My surrogate had hypotension early on. Some say thatís okay. anyway I was so anxious. Iíd love to visit suddenly. Want to come without appointed visit. Itíll be good occasion to meet our surrogate and give her some presents. We canít just do it. We have some reasons in real. My husband forgets about his responsibility. Iím typing this message and hear how heís trying to fit the key into the keyhole. This sound hints me heís deadly drunk. He comes home legless every day. He doesnít deserve these children. We by the way expect twins. It was so perfect to find out it. OMG, I wanted it so hard. My husband is one of those who disappoints me all the time. I canít change it anyway. Hope you have another situation. A woman must be supported. You must be supported more than others because you struggle for your happiness. I understand you well. I feel for your previous losses. I wish you only goodness and bliss! 10 Clarentz
6/18/2018

©Copyright 2004 - 2018 Baby-Names-and-Stuff.com
Contact Us | Link to Us | Name Meanings | Parenting | User Agreement
awesome journey which must happen long ago!